Episode 01: Dare To Be Self-Investing

Good morning everyone, and welcome to NF Learning Lab, where together, we access our innate, iNtuitive wisdom as unique and self-valuing women, and share who we are becoming in a safe, sensitive community.

Last week, we talked about how NF Learning Lab is an open-system learning environment designed to help iNtuitive Feeling women ‘unlearn’ the prescriptions of the Sensing world. We noted that we need time to adjust to the idea that we have the freedom, the support, the capacity and the right to redefine ourselves from the inside-out.

Once we begin to integrate this idea, our lives start to change, as any long-term NF Learning Lab woman will attest. It’s likely she can tell you HOW her life has changed, but she might be hard-pressed to explain WHY it has changed.  That is because NF Learning Lab, itself, is a complex confluence of unique elements, three in particular. First, it is a safe community of iNtuitive-Feeling women, who naturally place a high value on knowing themselves better and on supporting others to do the same. Second, it is a program of study that transforms intriguing models, systems, theories, and abstractions into experiential tools for self-reflection. Third, the two sets of elements just mentioned can be endlessly combined and recombined as an infinite source of fresh ‘data points’ from which iNtuitive women can continually evolve bold, new concepts of self.

Today, we’re going to cross-reference the models and theories behind two introductory NF Learning Lab tools; the Before Snapshot and the Sparkle Dna.

The Before Snapshot introduces us to the ten areas of life we work with in NF Learning Lab. Referencing a number of capacities that fully realized iNtuitives are likely to possess, it helps us assess how fully expressed we feel as iNtuitive personality types, in each of our ten areas of life. Do we have the words to champion our right to live our lives on our own terms? Do we seek and find environments that support us to be fully expressed? Do we long for a better world? Are we empowered to think about what that world might look like, and share our thoughts with others? Do we delight in and seek out people who inspire and motivate us? Can we feel ‘good’ about ourselves, even when others judge us critically? Can we take pride in the unique choices we make in our lives? Do we REALLY get how amazing and complex we are? Can we take full ownership of the perfection in our acute sensitivity?

The Sparkle Dna tool gives us a glimpse of the degree to which we are in touch with seven qualities that we iNtuitives seems to possess when we are fully realized and fully expressed. Those qualities are being; self-investing, risk-ready, resilient, self-confident, self-directed, purpose-prompted, and passion-powered.

When we cross reference the capacities of the Before Snapshot tool and the qualities of the Sparkle Dna tool, we can see new, previously hidden pathways on our journey of fully becoming who we truly are as amazing, multidimensional, sensitive, imaginative, ingenious women. Let’s move on to our journal prompts to learn more.

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  1. Gandolfa on May 7, 2021 at 5:04 pm

    I’m in my pjs and robe – it’s nearly 10:00am on a Friday morning – and I am giving myself the gift of becoming totally absorbed in what I call, the mini-degree program this website offers. Women of NF persuasion! This website is a true treasure chest and available through your effort to click with a single finger – a virtual degree program brought to you from NF Learning Lab through bravelybeingyou.com. If there is any doubt in your brilliant NF mind as to whether or not this can be HOME for you, it is my prayer that any cloud of doubt is lifted and you give yourself the gift you may not know you’ve been missing!

    • Shayla Roberts on June 13, 2021 at 2:27 am

      Dear Gandolfa, What a beautiful testimonial about Bravely Being You and NF Learning Lab. Thank you so much for your trust and your wisdom!

  2. Gandolfa Stegmann on June 15, 2021 at 7:05 pm

    How fun to see my thoughts in print for all readers’ eyes! This little miracle of self-expression would not have been part of WHO I AM! had it not been for NF Learning Lab and bravelybeingyou. com And this is not a paid commercial even though I do approve of it!!!

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